Hi Darlings, I almost missed doing this
today but as they say , Passions speaks
a different language.
Today we will be talking about ourselves women as
spiritual beings (someone is wondering what this is about abi….pls just stay
with me).
A lot of us got to where we are today by fluke not
real handwork on our relationship with God – some of us got married to the
right guy by grace,got the right job,met the right friends and even made the
right decisions in very critical period by GRACE ! We have not really stopped
awhile to listen at what God was saying or even if we could still hear him at
all and mind you, this is something you don’t realize until you consciously
think this through . This is a tap for
us to take our places in our homes (by this, I don’t mean wives & moms only
o)
The Bible has made us to understand that we were created as a Help- Mate for the Man and what that says is that, before we came, it was apparent the Man couldn’t function exceedingly well (he could function but not exceedingly well) If that doesn’t give you a boost of Confidence then I’m lost. We are the pillars of our homes, we keep the home running in every situation- good, bad, bland! And immediately we lose grip of this reality, we start observing some strange acts,results and even persons accessing our homes. No wonder Matt 12 : 29 ,Psalm 144 :12. It means that in our lives, our homes, career,children’s lives, we are very influential and if a temptation is going to come, it will not see the light of the day except God allows it !
How can we wield this influence to its maximum?
Faith : It is important we believe in God, his authority,
power and his ability to do so much more than we ask. People who know me
personally, will agree that I’m a planner- I plan my Month, my next holiday, my weekend etc.. but a couple of things have happened in
the past that I believe God was just trying to say “Oya do your worst nah” or
just plain “I am the God! Is there anything too hard…” and so I have gotten to
realize that without Faith we can’t even start a conversation with God to know
his plans for us and also believe in
those plans
Confession : Psalms 51 slays this part
for me..no matter how you may have missed it, he is willing and able as long as
we admit and confess. It helps to come through the blood of Jesus as nothing
washes whiter. I believe we all get bold
and confident after acknowledging our sins and asking God for forgiveness. I do
not think anyone is perfect as perfection only comes from God so do not beat
yourself up when you miss the mark now and again. Moreover, did you ever come
across that quote “ God calls the unqualifies and qualifies them” .
Adoration/Praise/Thanksgiving : Have you heard that
God dwells in the praises of his people
Psalms 22 : 3 ...this means we must
always be singing praises since we want his presence 24/7 . I don’t know about
you but worshipping God just humbles me, it’s like a great opportunity and I do
not take it lightly. It’s quite easy to get into the worship mode in church or
a gathering but doing it on our own, we sometimes run out of gas and from books
and testimonies, I have learnt you can
start by downloading your favourite worship songs, buying CD collections so
this can be your lead when you are going solo. I don’t play with my Nicole
Mullen, Donnie Mcclurkin , Frank Edwards, Women of Faith…please tell me more. I have realized that most times, in
this mode, prayers are answered, strongholds are brought down and breakthroughs
happen Acts 16: 23- 26
Supplication/Intercession – There’s power in a
praying woman no doubt. When you hold you home and other factors together with
prayer, everything comes to its rightful place .Has your husband given you his
prayer requests because he trusts your relationship with God ? Has he called
you first when things started going left in a meeting, Have your siblings
called you, not for money or free ride but
to put them in prayers.. I was so humbled when my friends hubby called to
remind her of his prayer points on our way to a service sometimes back….remember
we are pillars, take your place!!
Praying for yourself and for others isnt just for the
sake of your needs but in doing that, you are actually obeying God when he commanded “ Pray without ceasing” 1 Thess 5 : 16-18
Please share how you have been able to keep yourself
ground through the ups and downs of life..We are all waiting to add to our long
list .

Wow!!
ReplyDeleteBarbara I am so blown away with this write up !!
You have touched the most important area to me, life isn't just looking good and all that but also remembering to feed our souls.
I have learnt how to keep awhile during worship now. Thank you for inspiring.
It's my first time here too��
Thanks Yeecah for your perspective..all areas which seem to be a challenge is important but of course our r/ship with God isn't available for comparison
DeletePrayer..The foundation of all there is to be.
ReplyDeleteWord .Thanks for stopping by Next2New
DeleteHmmm word
ReplyDeletePrayer is our communication line with God. Inspired by this post. H.E
ReplyDeleteYes H.E !
DeleteYou don't know how much I needed a boost such as this. Yes I'm an Alhaja and I believe in the power of prayer. I'm so inspired and encouraged . God bless the work of your hand sis.
ReplyDeleteAm glad this is hitting home for you Alhaja.. God is God everywhere ! ,would have liked to pull out some verses from the Koran as well but the fear of blasphemy kept me!
DeleteOhh my !!! Barbara dis post is for me "LOL' when I pray deeply and continuously I feel a great joy welling up in my heart, there is truly power in a praying woman no doubt.
ReplyDeleteBarbara dear I really love your blogging platform trust me to visit regularly , keep up the good work dear.
P.S : the red hair net woman "LOL"
@ red hair net ! Thanks Seun for stopping by..we all are conquerors thru prayers .
Deletebeautiful write up barbs! this reminds me of a book we all should read...woman you got an assignment!
ReplyDeleteThanks Busola... I'll check for that .Have you read Praying Mom by Stormie ? it's another eye-opener
DeleteSinging praises to God gives me so much joy. In every thing I do I give it up to God, that's prayer too. But for me I believe that one of the greatest form of prayer aside singing is the way we treat people, you can never go wrong with that . with this post I am inspired to do more.
ReplyDeleteI agree totally Ugonma..lets treat people how we want to be treated!
DeleteI appreciate this Barbara u have been a great encouragement to me, Every women has a divine heritage in God. GOD said d seed of d women would bruise d devi Gen 3:15, dis means that every women has a seed that can bruise d enemy's head.
ReplyDeleteThe best way to build ur identity is through ur relationship with God.
Thanks Ades and thank you too for always stopping by with positivity!
ReplyDeleteHmmmm! Soul lifting, spirit filling, exactly every woman is a gate keeper in her home. Barbara well done!
ReplyDeleteYes Stella! We are
DeleteThanks for stopping by dear
IT CAN ONLY BE GOD!
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DeleteIT CAN ONLY BE GOD!
DeleteYes Ronke! Can only be God,,,thanks for stopping by gal
DeleteGod bless you barbara. This is really very inspiring i must say. Nothing as seeing a well rounded woman.
ReplyDeleteI usually run out of things to say when the prayer time gets long but with your idea I can last longer talking to my God. God bless you babe
Thanks Dunola..I'm glad you picked something good.
ReplyDeleteAmen to your prayers and God bless you too
For me prayer is is a deposit,I'm so reaping my intrest rate in prayers.💃💃💃. Impressed by this write up . God bless d work Of ur hand BARBIE
ReplyDeleteThat's a whole new insight for me Lanre...Deposit!
ReplyDeleteAmen and you too dear
This is so inspiring.. Prayer kips my family going n the testimony is that"all that we needed his hands has provided". Am happy u sharE this. God bless u
ReplyDeleteAmen Lola, God bless you too dear
DeleteThe power of a praying woman!!! When I was younger it was hard to find prayer points but now ehn...I fire prayer on all cylinder! There is so much to pray for, and when I see results of my answered prayers, it shows that GRACE goes beyond sin. A praying woman is the back bone of the family never stop praying for your family
ReplyDeleteAs in, the prayer points are endless ooo..lol
DeleteThis is so on point.
ReplyDeleteGod will help us women straighten out priorities...
Please when do you update your blog posts so we can be sure. You are so blessed dear!
Every woman needs that prayer Onyi! Everyday is a struggle...
DeleteI'm aiming towards Wednesdays and Saturdays. For now, I'll still keep reminding everyone as much as I can until my schedule is set in stone.
Thanks for always stopping by gal!
So inspired
ReplyDeleteSo inspired
ReplyDeleteAm glad!
DeletePrayer is what helps us get a balance. .I don't know what we would do without prayer, there's so much going on daily..praying and prayer time is the only"me time" some of us have..chic_momz
ReplyDeleteYou are spot on Chic Momz...God strenghten us all
DeleteThanks for stopping by
Prayer is the master key most times I wonder how our father's say their prayers but Mother' pray without ceasing and that keeps us going. My thanks to Miss Barbara Arisekola for sharing with everyone her understanding of praying through the developmental stages of a child’s life, and also Family.
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Thanks Gish! You know it's now Mrs abi?..lol, dont mind me.
DeleteAnyway our Fathers do pray sha but our Mums are our mirrors!
So on point! Well done barbz!!
ReplyDeleteThanks Hunnay
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ReplyDeleteWow......Absolutely correct friendmi you doing a great job here well done♡♡♡Taiwo Olawunmi
ReplyDeleteThis is so good. Thanks a lot for sharing **hugs**
ReplyDeleteTnx babe
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